Saturday, June 3, 2000

Graduations at a Glance ~ Six Siblings


Six Siblings - Grouped Graduations

There are several photos from Wendy's graduation, and quite a few featuring Derek (as cameras moved to digital, and his graduation was a little more recent ... and he's the baby!) but I thought it would be fun to look at all the Westra Siblings together at their respective high school graduations. A compilation post to compare and contrast.

All six siblings graduated from Cottonwood High School. For these siblings (those who have had high school graduates) I don't think any have had all their kids graduate from the same high school - of course Mom and Nelva didn't either. There was the move from Hermitage to Havenmoor, but that didn't affect the boundary school. The first five photos were taken at the Hermitage house ... the big blue spruce in the front/side was a common backdrop, as was the lava rock fireplace. Derek got the pretty backdrop of the Havemoor house for his graduation picture. 

Black, White and Gold will be victorious ... that's the start to the school song for Cottonwood High (probably the only line I actually know). This is reflected in the cap and gown over the years. While the boys seemed to stay consistent in black, Wendy's group got gold, while Jen's class looked angelic in white. All had some of the "extra" cords, sashes, etc that indicated academic prowess and other ideals.

Scott paved the way, and he and Chris overlapped their high school experience, as did Chris and Wendy. Graduations on the even years, 1982, 1984, 1986. Jen followed close enough that teachers definitely remembered the older siblings - Shane and Derek will have to comment if they felt as if they were living in a sibling shadow** during the school years. Jen's was the only "odd" graduation (year-wise). 


Check out the New Year's Babies for a similar side-by-side-six!


**We did get some comments from Derek and Shane ...

Derek: "I didn't feel like I was in anyone's shadow (6 year gap between me and Shane so we didn't share a lot of the same teachers) EXCEPT in Mr. Bill's AP Art and AP Art History classes. I think Mr. Bill always wanted more from me being Sterling Scholar Shane's little bro. In fact, I didn't get an A my senior year - I think I got a B+. But the night before the last day of school, Brian and I had already started our Summer lawn mowing business. As a last day of school prank, we drove Dad's blue truck over to Cottonwood, late one night before the last day of school the next day, unloaded our mowers and set them to the lowest setting. Then we moved "Bye Bye Bye" into the front hill of the school (REALLY short so it was a different color and unmistakable). The next day people were talking about it (it was right outside Mr. Bill's classroom windows). He gave me my grade (B+). I said with disappointment "Mr. Bill, I expected I'd do better after you saw my final art project." "What final project?" He asked. "That one." I pointed out the window. He smiled and said "That was you?" Brian and I confirmed that it was. He then changed my grade to an A-."

Shane: Speaking of living in the shadow of siblings, two experiences come to mind. One is also with Mr. Bill...on the first day of my first class with Mr. Bill, he says "Westra, huh? Any relationship to Jeni Westra?" I said, "Yes, she's my sister." Mr. Bill just stands silent for a minute and then says "How is she liking the Women's Penitentiary?" I laughed inside but kept a straight face, and said "She's dealing with it fine" (or something like that).  The other one was that I got into AP US History because the woman in charge loved having Jeni as a student. I normally wouldn't have got in because my grades weren't good enough, and I probably shouldn't have taken that class, as I didn't do well and I didn't pass the AP test.  

Jen: Ironically, I don't remember Mr. Bill that well. I know I took several art classes, but can't recall which were from him. I definitely remember Claudia Wright, the AP History teacher! I took AP American History my Junior Year, and AP European History my Senior Year. Tough classes, but she taught in such a way that it was interesting and engaging.  

Tuesday, April 25, 2000

My Great Grandma ~ by Wendy


 Wendy had an assignment for school to write about one of her ancestors. We are very lucky in that there are some very thorough autobiographies to help with such a task. Wendy chose to write about her Great-Grandmother Hannah Lucinda Howell Hurst Bohne. Hannah wrote a very detailed autobiography, 30 pages long (see it HERE). Wendy focused on Hannah's early life, and used some of the excerpts from her history in her paper.  You can read it below ...

My Great Grandma - Hannah Lucinda Howell Hurst Bohne

Written by Wendy Westra Jensen



Now, at ninety, my Great Grandma Bohne, with her soft gray hair and wrinkled skin, has trouble even remembering my name. But as she tells us the stories of how she got the scar on her wrist, and other stories of her growing up, her memory becomes vivid and sharp . . .

“ . . . My mother often told me how she used to sit me in one of those big half-bushel tubs when I was just a baby. This particular day, when I was just a young toddler, mother was peeling peaches. I began to become restless, so she sat me in the tub right outside the door of our small house, with a peach in my hand. Other families lived nearby, and some of them had pigs running loose. Mother was very busy with her work until she heard a frightened cry. Upon looking up, she saw that a large sow had grabbed me by the wrist while attempting to get the now slightly squished peach. It had tipped over the tub, and it was still dragging me by the wrist. My uncle was just coming around the corner of our small bunk house and rescued me before my mother could get to me. I am still carrying the scar from that pig’s tooth . . . “

The small town of Dublan, where my grandmother lived while growing up, had many buildings around, but not as many houses. They had moved into a small brick house with a fairly large farm. As nice as they thought their home was, they still had their problems. Their home was the farthest North in town, and they were in the Mexican district. My grandmother remembered when she was a young girl, and Mexicans would come to the Carletis ranch and from the San Jose district to trade at the Diblan stores. They would gather in groups in front of grandmother’s house to eat their lunches and drink their tequila, which was a poor grade of Mexican alcohol. They often became so intoxicated, it worried my grandmother’s mother.

“I remember how my mother would lock the doors and not allow any of us children to take a step outside”, my great grandmother told us.

By 1910 they were considering building a new home. There was one major drawback however; the Mexican revolution was doing its worst. The whole country was in an uproar and everything was unsettled. My grandmother wrote about what happened one particular day.

“I remember one Sunday late afternoon, a Rebel army marched through our town. They were a pitiful looking group as far as poverty was concerned. Some of them were barefoot, and their clothes would hardly hang on them. They were headed for Casus Grandes, which was a distance of twelve or thirteen miles from our town. At four A.M. the next morning the ferocious battle raged until the middle of the day. I remember I was working in the candy shop that day. Many places of business were closed because people were so upset they couldn’t concentrate. I have often described the noise from that battle as sounding like a community of lumber buildings, all falling down at the same time.”

Conditions went from bad to worse. Things went on this way until the July of 1912. The colonists could see that they were in grave danger. The church and the U.S. Government came to the rescue. Word circulated that they should evacuate the colonists, and railroad cars would be there Sunday to take them. They worked all night Saturday and Sunday to leave the best way possible.

They were only allowed two mattresses, a few quilts, pillows, and their best clothing. They had to turn loose their animals and leave the only life they ever knew. They fled to Utah with the other colonists and made a new life there. Here is the story in my grandmother’s own words.


“The whole town was there at the station at ten P.M. Sunday evening. We all stood there and waited until six A.M. the following morning. When the train finally came, it wasn’t nearly large enough to take all of us. It was finally decided that all of the women and children under seventeen of age would leave, with barely enough men to take care of us. The remainder of the men were left.

No more had the train pulled out, than a mob of Mexicans came into town. The men grabbed their horses and firearms and fled to the hills, with the Mexicans firing on them. My father, and the rest of the men found a place in the hills where they could march around a hill and make it look like there were a great many more than there actually were.

They fled to Colonia Juarez. Here they felt quite safe because they could ward off quite a large army. Many privations were experienced due to the fact that they didn’t have a chance to gather food or clothing, or bedding of any kind. Someone did take a sack of flour however. I heard Father tell how they stirred flour and water together and made hot cakes, and cooked them on a piece of tin over the coals of their campfire. It was two weeks before they were able to cross the border into El Paso, Texas, where they joined their families

In the meantime, we (the woman and children) that had left on the train the morning of July 29, 1912, landed in El Paso the same afternoon we left. I remember how terribly tired we were as we hadn’t slept since Friday, and this was Monday!”

When my Great Grandma Bohne and her family, plus the other women and children, had reached El Paso, they were given a small division, like a stall for horses. It was large enough to lay the two mattresses down, but there wasn’t enough room to walk around or between them. Their food consisted mostly of bread, milk, prepared cereals, and canned foods.

It was about the 19th of August before the men arrived from Mexico. How very glad my great grandma and her family were to see them. Her poor dad looked so pitiful and terribly worn out. They hadn’t as much as had a chance to shave or change clothes! Her dad didn’t even have a saddle on his horse most of the way

“Oh how glad I was to see my poor Dad after all that!” my great grandma replied, remembering everything that had happened that day.

Later, on August 21, 1912, Great Grandma Bohne’s family set out for Utah. They went to Fairview to live with relatives until they could maintain a home themselves. They had so many ordeals trying to keep a home and family. It was on May 16, 1949, that my great grandma’s mother passed away at the age of seventy four, followed by her father on February 6, 1956. He was buried next to his sweet and wonderful wife.

My great grandmother is now ninety, and will probably soon pass away too. I look at her now, with her wrinkled hands and small body, walking along slowly with her cane next to her, and try to picture her as a baby, being dragged by a pig -- a young girl living in Mexico -- and a young woman fleeing from her hometown to Utah. It’s hard to picture her this way, looking at her now, but we have learned much from her, and love to read and listen to the stories of what life was like for her when she was a little girl!



In 2022, Christopher found a hard copy of Wendy's paper with some other printed histories. Unsure if Wendy had a copy, he retyped it so it could easily be included here and on FamilySearch.com. 

Also check out the blog post featuring Hannah here on the blog. Lots of pictures and a condensed history.  The Life Of Hannah Hurst Howell Bohne

Sunday, April 23, 2000

Easter 2000

Westra Easter ... Easter Sunday was April 23 in 2000. There weren't any written records for reference ~ Jen's journal skipped 2000/2001 (ironic as she'd started scrapbooking and journaling is emphasized so much there) and Wendy's family was in St. George (Jared had just been born, March 8, so no info from her about the Westra party either). Email archive doesn't date back that far. Scanned photos, so no digital dating on photo files. Was this Saturday or Sunday? Unknown.

  • I wonder if Kellin caught any fish with his little plastic pole?  Thank you Shane for rescuing Kemery before she fell into the pond (there would be children falling into the pond, on Easter even ... see Easter 2006 *Ü*) 
  • Not sure why the Blackham boys aren't in the group picture ... little Callahan appears in a few of the photos. Maybe they had run late and missed the hunt and were just there for some socializing afterward. 
  • Keaton was coming (end of August). 

Ah, the classic plastic pink basket (Kaden used this year).
Those classics have been around since 1971!
There were four (another green one) and they were used every Easter (see Easter 1982 too).
Grateful to have found a COLOR version of this 1971 photograph!

Jen did a photo shoot with Callahan, as he looked so cute on the bridge. Originally she thought these photos were from Mother's Day, but seeing Callahan in the same outfit in a couple of the Easter group shots ... it must have been Easter.


Saturday, December 25, 1999

1999 Christmas Letter

Merry Christmas 1999 and Happy New Year!

Dear Family and Friends,

It’s hard to believe that another year has flown by already! We hope it has been a good one for you. It has been for us. Here’s an update on our current family situation:

  • Scott and Amy Westra: Live in Draper. Scott is a CPA, still working at Worker’s Compensation Fund of Utah. Three daughters and one son: McKenna, 6 ½ ; Alyssa, 4 ½ ; Kellen, 3; and Kemery, 16 months. Scott is in the Elder’s Quorum Presidency and Amy is teaching the 5-year-olds in Primary. 
  • Chris and Sandy Westra: Live in Fayette, Utah, where Chris works as a Substance Abuse Counselor at Gunnison Prison. Their three sons are Conner, 7 ½ ; Kadan, 5 ½ , and Corin 2 ½. Chris is Elder’s Quorum President and Sandy is teaching Primary. 
  • Wendy and Rick Jensen: Live in St. George area (Ivins). Rick transferred from teaching Seminary at PineView High School (the past 2 years) to teaching at Snow Canyon High School and the new Tuacahn School of the Arts (both of which are close to their home, so that’s nice!) Wendy teaches sign language (ASL) at Dixie College 2 evenings a week and does some free-lance interpreting. Rick teaches occasional computer classes at Dixie College and for an internet company. Rick is in the Elder’s Quorum Presidency and Wendy is teaching YW. They have a daughter Janika, age 4, and a son Jase, age 2, and are expecting another boy in March, which will give us 12 grandchildren--8 boys and 4 girls. 
  • Jeni and Grayson Blackham: Live in West Jordan. Grayson is a General Contractor, currently building homes in Heber—a long commute each day! Gray is a Counselor in the Bishopric and Jeni is the Primary Pianist. Their two sons are Landon, 4, and Callahan, 10 months. Jeni has lost interest in her boutique at the Quilted Bear and is totally into her new hobby of Scrapbooking! She does a great job and has won several contests with the cute pages she creates. She also writes columns for an on-line scrapbooking magazine. 
  • Shane: is 23 ½. He graduated from the U. of U. this past May and is working at Onyx Graphics in Quality Assurance (Computer work). He is attending a Singles Ward and is chairman of the “Perfecting the Saints” Committee, a member of the service committee, and in a temple sealing group. He built us a lovely pond and waterfall in our backyard, which we and the goldfish enjoy! 
  • Derek: is 17 ½ and a Senior at Cottonwood High School where he is serving as the Seminary President. He is planning on attending BYU next Fall. 

LaMar and Margie: LaMar is still working at Unisys, but hopes to retire in a year or so. He is still serving as the Stake Family Search Director. Margie still mans the FHC in our stake center on Wednesday mornings and volunteers at the Cottonwood Hospital Surgical Center Friday mornings. She is the ward Family History Coordinator. 

We hope all of you have a wonderful and healthy and happy year 2000! Write and tell us all about your growing families and what you are all doing. We’d love to hear from you! Or you can e-mail us at: westra@softcom.net (new e-mail address) Homepage: www.softcom.net/users/westra/Margie.htm

Sincerely,
The Westras

Christmas 1999

Christmas 1999 ... a close capture of the stockings (11 little ones), a tree cut from the yard (judging by the shape), the candy bar game, and I believe this was the first year the nativity was introduced. There is video, but there are NO pictures in Dropbox of the kids in costumes (there are flashes during the video, so pictures were taken ... not sure where they are though!)

Conner was Joseph, McKenna was Mary. Alyssa was an angel, Kaden a shepherd. Landon was a wiseman, joined by Chris and Derek (adults had to fill in roles several years) and Sandy was the star. Future years would have larger casts with many angels, shepherds and animals.

https://youtu.be/nJ6-o5ZOW28

... and a few more photos from the party. No Jensens in the photos, so they must have been with Rick's side of the family for Christmas Eve this year. We did have the Normans and the Grandparents though.


... one more picture, Derek and friends, maybe going caroling? There are lights on the trees and everyone is dressed warmly, although there is no snow.  This was taken with Jen's camera, grouped with the other Christmas Eve pictures, and catching a glimpse of Derek in the video, I believe he was wearing this shirt ...so it should be Christmas Eve also. 



Sunday, April 4, 1999

1999... Not Only Easter

So everyone had to multi-task a little for Easter this year ... not only was it the Easter holiday, but it was also conference weekend, and the "Spring Forward" shift for Daylight Savings. Whew! Have to appreciate all those other years when it's only eggs to worry about!

The Westra gathering was held on Saturday, April 3. Chris's crew wasn't able to make it up this year, but Scott's family, the Jensen kids and the Blackham Boys came out after the second session of conference. The littles did an egg hunt, then the men went to the Priesthood session.
Sunday it was conference again, and hopefully everyone remembered to change the clocks. There was another gathering that Sunday evening at Merrill and Lorrie's house. Nelva and Arnold and Dale were there too, and Blackham's got to show off baby Callahan. Cousin Emily had picked up a white blanket when she was in Bethlehem for him. The following Sunday would be Callahan's baby blessing.

Friday, December 25, 1998

1998 Christmas Letter



Dear Friends and Family— 

It’s hard to believe another year has gone by. We hope it has been a good one for all of you. It has been for us. We’ll catch you up on all the Westra Clan. 

  • Scott and Amy Westra: are living in Draper. Scott is a CPA working for Workman’s Compensation Fund of Utah. They added a beautiful little baby daughter, Kemery, to their family on Aug. 5. She joins McKenna—age 5 1/2, Alyssa—age 3 l/2, and Kellen—age 2.
  • Chris and Sandy Westra: are living in Fayette, Utah. Tired of all the commuting to Provo, Chris changed jobs this year. He now works just 5 miles from home as a Substance Abuse Counselor at the Gunnison Prison. Their 3 boys are Conner—age 6 ½, Kadan—age 4 l/2, and Corin—18 months. 
  • Wendy and Rick Jensen: are living in St. George, where Rick is teaching Seminary at Pine View High School. Wendy is teaching Sign Language (ASL) at Dixie College and Rick is teaching Computer Classes there and for an Internet Company for a little extra money. Their daughter Janika just turned 3 years old and their son Jase just turned 1. 
  • Jeni and Grayson Blackham: are living in West Jordan. Grayson is a builder and Jeni has a successful booth at the Quilted Bear Boutique in Midvale. Their son Landon turned 3 in Sept. and they are expecting another baby boy in March. They are soooo excited! 
  • Shane: is in the Architecture Program at the U. of U., which keeps him EXTREMELY busy! He’s often up there 24 hours a day! He will get his BA degree in the Spring. He did manage to build us a pond and waterfall in our backyard this summer—it’s almost finished anyway. He is our computer expert and tries to keep all our equipment running smoothly. He was our ward’s Webelos Leader for the 16 months since he returned from his mission to Brazil, but has recently switched to the Young Adult Ward. 
  • Derek: is 16 ½ and a Junior at Cottonwood High School. He works at “The Store” and has lots of terrific friends--both male and female. He is a great and caring person who always tries to do what is right. He enjoys sports and art and music. 

LaMar is still working at Unisys. Margie volunteers at the Family History Center Wed. mornings and at the Surgical Center at Cottonwood Hospital on Fri. mornings. LaMar is the Stake Family Search Director and Margie is the Ward Family History Coordinator. Margie’s other hobbies are flower gardening and computer. Besides genealogy, LaMar’s other hobbies are genealogy and genealogy! We won’t have to be worried about him being bored when he retires someday. 



We hope you all have a happy and healthy 1999!
Love, The Westras