Showing posts with label Wedding. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Wedding. Show all posts

Sunday, April 13, 2008

Rex and Zada ... A Lasting Marriage



As we were organizing and labeling pictures we came across the photo in the upper left. The Manti Temple. Mom thought it was Rex and Zada's wedding day but wasn't sure. We asked around and cousin Nikki wrote "This was in an album I scanned years ago with their wedding picture. I’m almost positive it’s Rex and Zada’s wedding day. I love it because those stairs are no longer there. I remember Grandma telling me it was a very low-key and small event. She said Rex’s dad drove them to the Temple and there were very few in attendance. I believe they had a little celebration with a few friends after, but not a big wedding like we have today."  The other pictures may also not be of the wedding day, but with the professional shots (likely shortly before) and with Rex's dad (their wedding day was his birthday) and how dressed up they are, it's a good guess that it is. 


Mom noted that early on, Grandma Zada had actually been Zadia on some documentation. 
I had never seen that, or never noticed, but sure enough ... if you look closely at the certificate above!

This is what Grandpa Rex wrote in his history ... 
"In 1937, I got a job as a bookkeeper and parts manager for a Chevrolet garage that opened in town. After a few months, I purchased my first car. It was a new 1937 2-door sedan and was I proud. Up until that time it had been necessary to wash the truck, after getting it unloaded, in order to go out on a date. During this time, I met a girl I was interested in by the name of Zada Howell. I started dating her and finally asked her to dance. She took me and said the answer was yes. Needless to say, we arrived at the dance just as it was letting out. We decided to get married on April 13, 1938, in the Manti Temple."
Grandma Zada recounted ...
"Rex always kids me about proposing to him since I said "yes" on Girl's Day. In a month or two I had a pretty diamond ring on my third finger. We hoped to be married on my birthday but the Temple was closed for Conference, so we waited a week and got married in the Manti Temple on Dad Norman's birthday. This was April 13, 1938. Daddy Howell was having cancer problems by this time and Mother had spent a lot of time in Salt Lake with him... Dad couldn't go to the Temple with us but Mother went and we had a beautiful sealing. Due to Dad's illness a big wedding was out of the question; however, Miriam and Leota gave me a shower and Eva Cox had a wedding party for us."
Rick and Wendy did some interviews with Grandma and Grandpa so you can hear a little about their story in their own words!  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b7RBNwtkP2U&t=61s




Golden Wedding Anniversary ~ 50 Years

... and 20 more. 70 years!



Wednesday, February 18, 1970

The Wedding ~ Lamar & Marge

 

... the day it all began. June 29, 1962. Lamar and Margie with their parents, in one of the few color photos from the wedding. Below, is a larger group shot, those featuring the bridesmaids and a couple more shown a little later. You can see all the wedding photos in Dropbox (1962 folder) to enlarge or see individual pictures. 


Back in the day, the newspaper would write up weddings for free (as well as births and obituaries). The article includes quite a bit of information (including the addresses of the parents) and the fact that "the bride wore a gown of lace and tulle highlighted with pearl and sequin trim. Her veil cascaded from a pearl-studded headdress."


... the article mentions "prenuptial parties" (bridal showers) and there are a couple of pictures capturing the activities there. Putting bows in the brides hair and "creating" a dress are classic shower antics.


... more pictures from the wedding reception ...
... the little flower girls are Kathy and Kerry Howell. In addition to family (Nelva, Sharon and Diane for bridesmaids and Steven, Kent and Merrill for groomsmen) Mom/Margie's good friend Judy Shultz and Dad/Lamar's buds Frank Willardsen and Richard Van Wagonen flushed out the wedding party.

Both sets of grandparents on Margie's side were able to attend.

Let them eat cake!

The actual wedding invitation/announcement isn't saved in Dropbox (if it turns up somewhere, let me know!) but going through one of the family boxes, a personalized napkin from the reception was found and scanned in. You can see it below, along with a few other random wedding pictures.
... in addition to the napkin, this collage features the bouquet toss (nice catch! the flowers and the photo!), Mom's cousin Diana Brady there at the guest book, and of course ... the car!