Wednesday, March 18, 2020

Quarantine!

Mom received an email from Cousin Nikki ...


Hi Margie and LaMar, I hope you are doing well during all this craziness. You might find this interesting. Years ago I went to Grandma and Grandpa Norman's house and they let me scan a bunch of photos in their albums. I remember Grandpa telling me about a time when their family was quarantined because they had caught an illness. He remembered being stuck at home for a while and he and his brother weren't allowed outside of their yard. Here is the picture of them during this time. Notice the cross in their window. He said that let people know the family had been quarantined. I think it was most likely the Spanish Flu. It seems like the math works out on the years.


Mom's Response~ Thanks Nikki! Ive never seen the first picture and the explanation of the cross on the door! Yes, on the terrible Spanish Flu in 1918, when Rex would have been about 3 and Gordon 18 months younger.  I remember when my Grandma Norman (Louella) told me that she and Herb were too sick to even care for the boys. And that it was the members of the Oddfellows and Rebekahs service organization that stepped in to help and care for them and their two little boys. Grandma said she doesn't know what they would have done without that help. So Grandma and Grandpa became members of the organization their whole life, as I remember, and held offices.

Taken from Herbert Lavar's Autobiography ...
That fall, along in November (1918) I took the flu. There was a terrible amount of flu then. There were many, many people dying with it. They took me home from work. The doctor got there and told the fellow who took me home to get me to bed and take care of me. They fixed me up and asked me if we had any liquor in the house. Mother (Louella) said she didn't know what it was, but I had just purchased a case of something for Fred Rassmussen. He got me part of that, and he rubbed me with it. He then made a "hot toddy" for me. The Odd Fellow's Grand Noble got a nurse who stayed for three hours. Then he got another one, and she stayed for a couple of hours. That is the way it was for two or three days. At least they had someone there to take care of me night and day. I went unconscious, and the doctor asked Mother if we had any relatives around. She said the nearest was in Mt. Pleasant, Utah. He said she had better get them because I couldn't live. That was an awful thing to tell her. 

The girl that was at the depot came and got the two boys and took them down to her house to take care of them. They were homesick and lonesome so she brought them back the next morning, and they had the flu. Mother was still up and going. I was unconscious for thirteen days, and when I became conscious I had a hemorrhage. I bled the washbasin nearly full of blood. They got the doctor to our home, and he packed my head in snow (there was snow on the ground because it was just a little before Thanksgiving). He finally got it stopped. Mother asked what she should do if I had another one.He said to get him and get him fast. About an hour and a half later I had another one. They finally got a hold of him, and I was still bleeding when he got there. He finally got it stopped and shook his head. He told Mother she had better get the folks because I could not make it. She asked what she should do if I had another one. He said I couldn't survive another one. That made Mother feel awful bad. I could hear what they were saying, but I couldn't say anything. An hour or two later, I had a third hemorrhage. They got the doctor and he came in a hurry. When he came in and took care of me, he said to Mother, "Mrs. Norman, if he can make blood as fast as he has been making it lately, he will be well." He said I was in better shape than when he first came down. It had turned red instead of black. That was the last hemorrhage I had, but I laid there and couldn't do anything. I got to feeling better so was able to sit up in a chair. We still had the nurses there, and Mother came down with the flu. She was expecting another baby, and it was quite a turmoil. 

When I got so I could go out, I went to pay the nurses because I felt they were the first ones who should be paid. I asked each nurse how much we owed them, and each one replied , "Nothing". The Odd Fellow's Lodge had taken care of all the expenses including the coal we had to buy from the lumber yard. I always maintained if it hadn't been for the Lodge, I wouldn't be here today. I paid them back. I couldn't do it all at once, but I did it as fast as I could. I figured if they could do that much good for me, they could do that much good for someone else. 



From Grandpa Rex Norman's History (this would have been a later quarantine)...
I was the oldest. I started school at the age of six. I can remember when my brother and sister both came down with Scarlet Fever. We were quarantined for over a month. The kids would bring my schoolwork home and place it on our fence for me. Dad had to live away from home during that period of time. I remember after about four weeks the doctor came and examined them and going over their bodies he found a couple of scales and kept us in for another week. We were sure mad and we called him Dr. Quack. We then had to fumigate the whole house. We had to stuff all the cracks and openings with rags and would do part of the house at a time.

(More from Mom) I remember when we were little kids on Boxelder St. and had measles and mumps, etc., how the county health dept. (?) came and put up a quarantine notice on your front door. I don't know when that practice was discontinued. We'll all have to do some research on those interesting times.


Monday, February 10, 2020

Chandelier

Mom/Margie and Dad/Lamar have a huge chandelier in the entryway of the Havenhill home.
Over the years, dust and dirt collect, and it's time for a cleaning.

Did you know there is a song called "Chandelier"? It's sung by Sia.
 Did you know that Derek has a Sia-type wig?
 



Now you know ...


Mom wrote in an email on Feb 8, 2020 "Derek came yesterday and cleaned our big chandelier---the method worked well spraying it with a special cleaner with dropcloth below. Sparkles now!" I don't know if she was aware of the music video until a bit later!

Monday, February 3, 2020

Do You Want To Build A Snowman?

Snow Day in Utah today! School was canceled. 
There was one day last year too ... 
but those are my only memories of school being canceled for snow. 

Frozen, and the now famous "Do You Want To Build A Snowman" song may not have come out until 2013, but the Westra clan had been building snow stuff for quite a while already. Scott became fairly well known for his creative snow sculptures. Click on the pictures to bring them up bigger, and check Dropbox for the originals!

 1967 - Scott, Chris and Dad (Lamar)

1970 - Tall Snowman (how did they do it?)
Neighbors, and Scott, Chris and Wendy

 1972 - Scott and no-coat Chris
Double Trouble!

1978 - All five kids here (Scott, Chris, Wendy, Jen and little Shane) 
Not a snowman, but a cave/horse?

Big Snowball (1979?)
Jeni and Chris

 ... and the finished cave

... and yet another igloo-ish (1980)
Wendy, Jeni and Shane

Chris and Wendy - 1979?


Jen and her special snow friends. 
Mr. Fireman (oh the irony) and Snoopy.
I'm sure Scott made them both.
But his most memorable snowman was ...

Brother Joseph Smith (1980)


.. another 1980 creation ...
Snowman walking a snow dog.

... and back to snow caves
Shane - 1986


... a snow owl?
Derek and Shane - 1987


...and a slope for sledding. Who needs a hill?
This went all the way around the side of the house to the backyard!
Wendy, Shane and Derek - 1991
The pine tree there is likely the old Christmas tree!



... and I guess we can include some snapshots from the next generation.
Grandpa and the Girls ... 2003

 Keaton - 2014

Aaron 2017. Jensens 2018. Cousin Crew 2019.

Cooper 2014

Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow!



Wednesday, January 15, 2020

Family History Fun - Compare a Face


Family history can be fun ... and it can be more than just dates and stories. Ever wonder who you look like? On the FamilySearch website, there is a "compare-a-face" activity you can do. Upload a picture of yourself, and it will compare your facial features to your relatives and give you a percentage # of how close you are. Now ... I don't really consider this an exact science, but it's fun.

Here's a peek at the some of the results for Chris and me ... 
So Chris had a high correlation to Dad ... my highest was 64% and that was to my great-great-great-grandfather Henry Sanderson (more on him later, he has a very interesting history and there's a surprising amount of info available there on Family Search!)  

Chris also got this cool chart ...


I'm not sure if this option was discontinued ... 
Dad and I both tried to find it and couldn't.

For me, it pulled up the top matches, then I could manually scroll through them across the top there to see the percentage. Mom, with a 46% match was still in the third spot on my comparisons. I seemed to favor the Norman side for first several spots, before the Westra side made an appearance. 


I was playing around, hit the + button and got the option to add photos ... so I added a few, of Wendy, Chris,  my kids, even Gray ... and a younger me! Check out the comparisons. 
So again, certainly not a science, and I'm sure different photos would yield different ... but hopefully somewhat similar results. It's fun to look at and learn a little about some ancestors you might not have investigated if they weren't your twin ... or 60% match ;)  

Wednesday, January 1, 2020

New Years Baby!

Happy New Year! I knew I had to do a post showcasing the Westra Welcome to the new year with the Westra kids their first New Year's Eve ... I searched through the folders on Dropbox and gathered up the pictures, but couldn't find one for Derek. Happily, as the "Westra Family Photos and History" project continues, Chris found and scanned Dunk in the sash and streamers.

Mom had mentioned that they actually waited a year on Scott's official picture, as he was just 15 days old for his first New Year. So instead of being the youngest ... he's the oldest in this particular pose,. Chris and Wendy are on the infamous "white couch" ... as is Shane. While Chris had to be held up, that wasn't even an option for baby Jenny, at less than two months of age. Four babies in hats, two without. Shane is the only one pictured who tried to eat the paper streamers.

It's a little ironic that the more recent pictures seem to have a lower quality than the older ones. Perhaps this is because the first four come from scanned negatives, and the final two were scanned photos? There is another cute picture of Scott, taken with the other camera, in black and white (just as there were two of Jen, color one included above, second shot in black and white below). More mysteries regarding  Old-Fashioned Film ...

When Gray and I got married, I discovered his family had a few similar traditions ... like saying "home again home again jiggidy jig" AND ... New Year's Baby photos. At least for Gray (not sure if the other kids have them). So for our family, we have a Gray/Jen and Landon!

Unfortunately, we didn't keep up the tradition with the other boys. It's hard to remember and make sure these types of photo ops happen! That makes it all the more impressive that Mom and Dad (Lamar & Margie) made it through six siblings and 18 years!



Have any of the other Westra siblings continued this tradition with the next generation?

Wednesday, December 25, 2019

Saturday, December 21, 2019

Angel of Lost Keys

 Mom encouraged the siblings to share a "prayer story" and so here is one from Wendy.

The sharing happened Dec 2020. The memory happened in 2019...




I went to bring Jaiden to tumbling after school, but couldn't find my car keys anywhere. Luckily Rick was home and so I was able to use his spare key temporarily, but I knew that I needed to find mine. 
When I returned I said a prayer that I would find them. The whole family joined in the search but with no success. I was getting nervous because the key fob costs about $200.00 to replace. I checked all of the usual places several times. A few hours later I decided to try again and said another prayer mentioning the cost of replacement and even threw in a reminder of how I had paid extra tithing all last year, ha ha! I explained that I would really love to find my keys and we could really use this little tender mercy! 

Anyway, after dinner I thought that maybe I should check the garbage can. Although, why in the world would they be there, right? I took out a garbage bag and started pulling out the garbage piece by piece, putting it in the bag. I had gone through the entire day's garbage and was moving on to the garbage from the day before. I was about to give up when I saw a round black thing. I pulled it out and sure enough, there were my keys near the bottom of the garbage can! I was so grateful!! I gave several "thank you" prayers expressing gratitude at God's tender mercies! If I hadn't received an impression to check there the keys would have been thrown away and lost forever! 

Rick joked that there was probably an angel in heaven whose sole responsibility was to help people find their lost keys -- in fact maybe there was one specifically assigned to the Jensen family, ha ha! He then shared his own miracle experience of when he had lost his keys at Tuacahn. He had been in the costume room getting a costume together for a seminary assignment. He was nervous because he was in a hurry and only had ten minutes before he had to get to his assignment. He knelt down and said a prayer asking for help to find his keys immediately so that he could get to his appointment on time. He then looked over and there was a basket of boots. He reached into one of the boots and there were his keys! 

I am grateful that God is aware of the tiny details of our lives and blesses us with tender mercies even when it is something as inconsequential as missing keys!