Happy Mother's Day, Mom/Margie/Grandma!!

 A collection of memories and pictures for our mom for Mother's Day. We love you!! 💓

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Scott and Amy ~ 

I am pretty old and not a good journal writer so my memories may or may not be accurate.  But mom’s memories of me are pretty questionable too.  Every time she tells it, I am more of a prodigy - speaking at 6 days and walking at two weeks. Several things she attributes to me I have no recollection whatsoever. I remember her taking all sorts of classes in her early married years - cooking, cake decorating and some club she has a love-hate relationship with - T.O.P. S. I recall her being super busy with my younger siblings. I remember her ironing in the family room at our Saint Street house and how she teared up watching the moon landing on a black and white TV. After moving to the Hermitage house, mom and dad were part of a “young married” group. One day they had an extra ticket to “Hello Dolly” at the Promised Valley Playhouse and they let me accompany them. It was one of the most remarkable experiences of my life.

I remember her making me go read her journal when there were serious things her emotions wouldn’t let her share vocally. I remember going shopping with her Saturday mornings at Harmon’s on Ft. Union where she used two thousand coupons and then unloading the groceries and cutting off UPC labels (barcodes for you younger folks) and storing them in little recipe boxes. I remember her tearing up during Hallmark commercials and about any other circumstance. I remember how happy (and maybe relieved) she was when I found Amy who loved me. Mom even shared her lasagna recipe with Amy. I admire her devoted and even desperate effort to impart all of the knowledge, wisdom, truth and love she can to her descendants. I hope I can follow her example and be half as successful. - Scott

I remember when my kids were young and Grandma Westra would come over, she would always bring a bag of books to read to the kids.  The kids would always be so excited to see what she had brought!!!   I do the same thing now with my grand kids!! Letti always loves to look in the front of the books to  see if they were given to her mom by grandma Westra!!! Thank you for helping  my kids to love reading !!! Love  you!! --Amy

Chris and Kim ~ 

Mom would always know and be interested in the details - what girl I was interested in, or what test I was taking.  I appreciated that and it always let me know she loved me.  I tried to follow that example and always know enough about my boys that I could ask them specific questions.

Though this is in the later years, I appreciate being taught about investing in assets, and the way that increases your value (and keeps up with inflation).  Buy low, sell high.  Buy and sell in increments.  Don’t panic.  Stay invested long term.  This has made a huge difference in our net worth and lifestyle and my boys have all learned it WAY earlier than I did.

--Christopher

My memory is just of being consistently loved, and appreciating the generosity of mom and dad towards me, which I didn't have with my previous mother-in-law. We really enjoy our time together, and mom's interest in our life. -- Kim

Wendy and Rick ~ 

I love exercising with Mom in her “swim spa!” It gives us a chance to exercise and visit at the same time! I love being able to talk with Mom and catch up on everyone’s lives! I love Mom’s desire to continue to educate herself and pass along whatever she has learned to her posterity! I love how Mom prays for ways to help her children and grandchildren. Some of those answered prayers have come in the way of opportunities such as FSY, church history tours, and other get-togethers. Inspired ideas that have come to my mom have often been answers to my own prayers. Thank you, Mom, I love you!!
– Wendy 

Jen and Gray ~ 

• One random "Mom Memory Montage" is Progressive Rummy. I remember her playing with me and my friends back in my high school days. Lots of NewYear's nights in the later years. Once when Mom proudly went "down and out" in the final hand, and had done sets instead of runs (nope! Back up into your hands go the cards). Mom laughing (sometimes to tears) over Grayson's comments. Buying tons of cards (it's just a little 2) ... having multiple legs (I looked under the table, she always only had two legs!), so many possibilities. 

• Having a birthday so close to Mom, we'd often combine cakes ... and happily we both LOVE the white cake with buttercream icing from Sam'sClub. Quite a few cake memories (including me holding it up and tilting a little to get a better camera view, and it toppling over! Oops. Mom laughed and laughed and said it still tasted good). A birthday picture in 2009 that we re-created 13 years later in 2022. 

• Recently, it's been fun talking about books and Goodreads, or what TV/Movies we’ve enjoyed. I belatedly jumped on the Wordle bandwagon, but NOT to the extent that Mom loves the game and does all the variations. During Colton's college basketball season, if Mom and Dad weren't out gallivanting, they'd always tune into the streaming games and watch and send little comments throughout and at the end (Mom would watch to the end ... I think Dad might have fallen asleep, as some of them went late). 

• Blackham Boy Grandma Westra associations might dominantly be a ROTH/Fidelity association. All the birthday and Christmas monies invested, and encouragements to invest on their own. It's something they'll appreciate even more in the future!  Also lots of fun memories at the Havenmoor House. Holidays (Easter and ChristmasEve), Cookies&Cousins, Waffles&Westras. The toy cabinet, the little pool table downstairs, the cave, all the flowers …

• Once at the Blackham home, we starting making a list of homonyms ... I told the boys that this was something Grandma Westra had done in my early years, as well as teaching us lesser known words like dearth and plethora ... the latter means a lot! -Jen

Shane and Alicia ~ 

I always remember Mom being there for me. Whether it was fixing a huge piece of strawberry shortcake, playing games like Boggle, or just talking, Mom was always attentive and caring. One thing that has really amazed me is how much Mom continues to love, serve, and pray for all her kids and her grandkids, regardless of age, stage, or circumstance. So much of what she still does and how she spends her time is to help her family. - Shane

I remember just after Adria was born, I was so tired and wasn’t feeling like myself. One day Margie announced that she and LaMar would come babysit while Shane and I went to lunch for a date. I hadn’t realized that I needed a little bit of time away until we were at lunch. Now that is something I try to do for young parents around me when I can. Another thing I admire about Margie is her green thumb! I love looking out at the flower beds in the back and enjoy their beauty. --Alicia

Derek and Danielle ~ 

When I think of “Memories of Margie,” I think of: fresh homemade bread with homemade jam, fruit leather drying on the deck of the Hermitage Circle House, meatloaf and lasagna, her dancing around the kitchen with her “exercise tapes,” digging through her purse for a mint or candy during Church, watching Star Trek together, and taking 10 minutes longer than everyone else when deciding what to order at a restaurant. ;) Of her many amazing and admirable attributes, a favorite is her thirst for knowledge. Whether it was consuming BYU Speeches while on the treadmill, reading business books (despite not working in business), learning EVERYTHING about the stock market and family finances, or helping countless people with gospel resources - her insatiable appetite for learning is impressive and rare. Thanks for your amazing example mom! Happy Mother’s Day! - Derek 

There are so many things that I love about Margie! She is the best mother in law I could ask for. She has a love for education and is always learning and sharing her wisdom, allowing others to benefit from her studies. I love how supportive she is of her family, providing love ad support in whatever way is needed, including attending rainy soccer games to cheer on her grandkids. I love how she encourages mental and spiritual growth by providing financial support for FSY, church history trips, etc. It's also so fun to see her competitive side when we play card and board games together. She's just the best and I'm so grateful to know her!

--Danielle

And a few of the grandchildren...  

I admire Grandma's desire to learn more about all kinds of things, but specifically finances. She puts in the effort to make sure she's got accurate information and shares it with her loved ones to help us all plan for a stable financial future. Brandon and I have also loved going to see shows with Grandma and Grandpa at Hale theater! She is thoughtful and loving and it makes me happy to see how much she loves our little family and watching her posterity grow in general. Love you, Grandma! - Janika

I love talking with Grandma about the finances and the stock market. I love getting her opinion on things to help me formulate my own ideas and make better investment decisions. -Jase

I love Grandma so much! I loved going to her house as a kid, and some fun memories I have is convincing her to open up the freezer in the garage so that we could make some papa murphy’s pizza for dinner even though she was always planning on “saving it for later”. Grandma is really good at saving. She has great self control, and she does an incredible job teaching all of us about our futures and why we should save now financially! I’m forever grateful for her wisdom, and what she has taught me about priorities. Love you Grandma!

-- Jared

I love spending time with Grandma and Grandpa, whether we are playing rummikub, playing word streak, or watching jeopardy late at night! Grandma and Grandpa are so generous, Christlike, and service oriented. It is a gift to spend time with them! -Janelle

I remember when I was little Grandma taught us how to play speed rummikub and we would play for hours! As I've gotten older I have learned that the Rummi genes run in the family because I'm pretty good ;)  Grandma - you are so loving and generous, I would be nowhere near where I am without your support! Thank you for helping me to grow and learn, and for helping me make it to efy, the church history trip, and my mission! -Jaiden 

(I didn’t know if I would have time to get an answer from Josh, and so I took his answers from a similar write-up that we did for Christmas). Grandma makes the best warm fresh rolls (my mouth is watering just thinking about it). Oh wait, actually change my answer to that peach jello stuff, that’s the best! I appreciate it when we have time to have long chats about random things. I like to play Rummiku with Grandma. My Grandma also gave me a lot of knowledge and advice for my future!  –Josh 

I love talking about plants with Grandma and walking around her garden and talking about all her different kinds of flowers. I also love playing Rummikub with her! –Jenna 

Rella: Some of my favorite memories are being with grandma in the kitchen! I always love the jello and when she had cherries for us on the kitchen counter. One of my very favorite memories though was when she was making brownies once and asked Alexa how much time was left on her timer. Alexa said there were no timers set and grandma turned to me and made the most shocked and aghast face I’ve ever seen. Grandma is so fun to be around and I love her so much! 💖💖💖

And some other fun pictures!! (In no particular order!!)

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