Friday, July 27, 1979

Twirly Girls


The Wonderful Westra Sisters! Wendy and Jenny were marching in parades in 1978 and 1979, dressed in these tiny, sparkly red costumes, and twirling a baton. Really, it was all in the wrist, we never even attempted a spin with fingers. It was more about the marching. A red bow on the back of the head, or a sparkly headband with a feather ... in the "winter" costume, note the white earmuffs and the red pom-pom on the shoes too.

The leader of this incredible group was our neighbor across the street from our Hermitage House. You can see the group really varied in age (and height).  We marched in several parades and participated in competitions and I'm sure Scott, Chris and Shane just loved coming to watch!


Here's some of Wendy's memories from her journal ...

  • December 1978: My name is Wendy Westra. I am 10 years old. I take piano lessons and baton lessons... My sister, Jenny is 8 years old. Me and my sister made up a routine in baton lessons, We did it to "It's a Small World." Our teachers thought it was cute!
  • February 1979: For baton I did a routine to "Music Machine." It was my favorite record but the record melted and I was really worried because we needed to listen to it to do the routine because it was my best one and there would be trophies and prizes! Now I will have to borrow our neighbors. 
  • July 3, 1979: We went to swimming lessons and to primary and then we took a shower and ate lunch and started getting ready for the Children’s Parade in Provo. We ate there and saw Cannonball and Harvey and we won second place out of the teams like drill, baton, pom poms, etc. (Last year we won first). We goofed up but the judges thought we were cute both years, but everything turned out pretty good.
  • July 4, 1979: It’s the 4th of July. We were in a parade at Murray in the morning. Mom and Dad, Chris, Scott, and Shane came and watched us. There were lots of horses and I’m glad we weren’t after them because they went to the bathroom all over! There were people dressed up like Spiderman, Superman, Wonder Woman, etc.
  • July 18, 1979: We had a slumber party at Shauneen’s house for baton. We slept outside and everyone brought a treat. We played games and had a lot of fun. They have a trampoline that we played on. I didn’t fall asleep till 12:30.

There was even some video footage uncovered!

https://youtu.be/tIAgBv18dtU

**FLASH FORWARD TO THE FUTURE
In 2012, Mom/Margie uncovered the little red baton outfits in storage. 
She passed them on to Wendy, and the Jensen girls tried them on and had a little photoshoot. 
Janelle, Jaiden and Jenna

Wendy wrote "One thing I remember (probably a few days before the parade) is Shauneen Hadley telling all of us to wash our hair really well the night before the parade so that it would shine! Then she told us that after we washed it -- wash it again! I thought that was funny that we had to wash our hair not only once -- but twice -- to make it shine!"

That reminded Mom/Margie of a memory ... "Talking about washing your hair twice brought back memories of how my mother always shampooed us once, and rinsed, then shampooed a second time, then rinsed. Then she rinsed our hair either with lemon water or vinegar water. The way she would curl our hair when we were little is with little strips of rags. She would roll a strip of hair up with the small strip of rag, then tie the rag to hold the curl in place. She would do this overnight and take the rags out in the morning----and voila, curly hair." 

Maybe Wendy and Jen should resume a routine and perform it at a family function! *Ü*



Monday, April 30, 1979

Kellie and Cory

Among the Westra siblings, there are two angel babies ... Kellie Sue and Cory Matthew. Kellie was just eight days old when she passed away, and Cory died in utero, just shortly before his due date. There weren't a lot of pictures of Kellie (and none of Cory) ... in Mom/Margie's history, she stated "She was such a beautiful baby, prettier every day--so each day I thought, tomorrow we'll get some pictures taken." Scott (age 15) had taken a picture of her through the glass at the hospital, there was the hospital photo (which Mom didn't care for) and a nurse took a couple polaroids when she was at Primary Children's. 

You can read the full history here ... History of Kellie Sue Westra
It's also in the family Dropbox (Word and PDF)


The next year, Mom/Margie was pregnant again. "I wish I could find the history I wrote up after his birth. He died in utero 2 weeks before his due date. I went to doctor visits alone with all our kids, so had to deal with the news alone. I hadn't felt him move for a day or so, so I was worried when I went in that day to the doctor. The doctor put some seaweed type stuff in, as I remember, that helps to soften your cervix to prepare your body to deliver, so you don't have to carry the baby longer before giving birth naturally. Then they induce labor the next day I think. He weighed 5 lbs. and was born in the labor room with just LaMar and I there. LaMar had to go find a nurse and tell her the baby had been born. We hadn't thought to take a camera and they didn't have one, so we don't have any pictures of him. I think hospitals have cameras now and are better prepared for those circumstances. They put me in a room as far away from the nursery as possible, so as to not hear the babies cry and see them delivered to the moms for feedings. We already had a friend birthday party scheduled for Jeni, so Dad handled that alone. The hospital brought me a little birthday cake since I was there on my birthday. They said there was a heart problem with Cory, but not bad enough to have caused his death, so they didn't really know why it happened."




From Mom/Margie: When Kellie died on April 25, 1979, Heidi Lindsay in our ward went to the cemetery and gathered flowers that were there from the burial and created this nice framed arrangement from them. I think she brought it over to us on Memorial Day. Such a thoughtful surprise.



When Cory was buried after he was born on Nov. 5, 1980, we gathered flowers and hired Beth Crook in the ward to make one as a remembrance of him. Beth did a beautiful job and would not accept any payment. The larger one is Kellie's and the smaller one is Cory's. Kellie's could be displayed in different directions--I don't know which is correct. I always thought if we had a wall group of the other kid's photos, we would have these for two we lost.


Thursday, August 24, 1978

The Homestead

 

The Homestead in Midway Utah ... I don't have distinct recollections of activities at The Homestead, but just a general fond memory of trips with the family there. Looking at my personal history (written in my 20s) I mentioned a memory of a bee sting, while gathering tennis balls in the woods around the courts.  In a 1975 annual recap, Dad had mentioned he and Mom making a trip there alone in July. There was a family trip (sans little Shane) in July 1977  and then another family trip (again, sans Shane) in August 1978. Looking at the photos above,  the top left photo in front of "The Farm House" would be the 1977 trip ... based on Wendy's hair (look close, it's long, in a pony-tail ... even though she DOES seem to have on the same shirt and pictures with short hair) and Scott's height. Then the remaining five pictures from the 1978 trip. Dad kept little Diary Books, and looking back, he found some written memories and tidbits from these two family trips to The Homestead ...

Trip to The Homestead (11-13 July 1977) 

We dropped off Shane at Burgeners, we were in Room 17, two nights, room cost, $34.48 plus $2 sleeping bag charge. We had a dinner charge the first night, on the bill, $13.09. The second day, we went to the Hub Cafe, $10.68 Bank Americard. I have the bills in my little book. We had extra costs, Horses $1.50, Miniature Golf, $1.50, Pool, $0.50. I even have the score card for Miniature Golf, for Scott, Chris, and myself.  We had lunch on 13 July, $14.40 BankAmericard.

Trip to The Homestead (22-24 August 1978) 


I took three days of vacation. We had earlier reserved two nights at The Homestead. 
Tuesday morning, Marge and I took the little car down to Cottonwood Motors for a 50,000 mile checkup. Then Scott and I took our old lawnmower in for repairs.  We got the car packed, left Shane at Burgeners, and headed to the Homestead about 10:30. The drive was short, and the room wasn’t ready when we arrived. We drove to Heber, got slurpees at the 7-11, and then went back to the Homestead, where we unpacked and moved into the Guest House.  We played tennis, went swimming, and played shuffleboard. The water in the outside pool was very cold, so we spent most of the swimming time indoors.  We had a snacky lunch before playing and we all went out for pizza that night at the Pizza Hut in Heber. 
Wednesday, we did a bit of swimming and tennis. There was a mix up in our room reservations, so we had to move out of the Guest House and into The Barn, which was a much more roomy place, and a little more fancy.  Marge and I and Wendy had a nice breakfast Wed morning, while the rest snacked cold cereal in the Guest House.  We went in to Heber City for lunch – hamburgers and malts at the Dairy Keen.  Marge and I went to a nice dinner in the dinner room – roast beef. 
Thursday, Chris and I got up early and went fishing. We drove near the Chalet, which we had investigated the first day, and we hiked along the railroad tracks around the west side of Deer Creek Reservoir. We fished for about 2 hours and I caught one nice rainbow trout, about 14” on a daredevil. The water was quite murky and green with algae.  We returned, packed, checked out, and had snacky meals. We also did a little swimming and tennis before check out time of 12 noon. We had an ice cream and bought candy bar snacks for our trip home. 
We got back in plenty of time Thursday afternoon to get ready and go to our Thursday eve 6:00 class, after stopping by Normans, and picking up Shane at Burgeners. We stopped on the way home and picked up rocks for the rock garden.

Thursday, July 20, 1978

Wind River, Wyoming - Scout Trip


As part of his journaling, Dad/Lamar kept old "Diary Books" (sometimes called Seven Star Diaries or Success Agendas). In each little book, there is a calendar page for each day. Dad had inserted separate pages when he had more to say about any particular event. In the box for 1978, inserted between 20 and 21 July, are six inserted pages, pages 1-12, on both sides of each page, very small, describing the Wind River Trip, 18-20 July 1978. Here's Dad's record of that trip, along with some corresponding photos from the Dropbox files ...

Wind River, Wyoming ~ 18-20 July 1978 

We packed our gear and got everything ready the night before – Monday. Scott had been in charge of food planning and purchases.  We woke up early, about 4:30 Tuesday morning, and loaded the food and gear into the station wagon, and drove to the church, 5:15. We packed Bill Monson’s red suburban with kids, and packed Lee Thacker’s trailer with packs.  Brian Crook drove the wagon to Morris’s to pick up a coat and then home to stash the wagon in the garage. 

We had a nice prayer before we left and headed up to Wyoming, 5:30. We listened to stereo tapes, The Doobie Brothers, Three Dog Night, etc, and a little good music also. We got to Rock Springs about 9:30, but it was closed. We tried to find a restaurant open, but 2 or 3 were closed. We got gas ($8.20) and hit the WC. Then we went to a restaurant and had breakfast – me and 10 kids $22.00. 

We continued on to Farson and tried to purchase fishing licenses. They sold the boys several licenses for $2.00 but then determined that they had made a mistake. The boys over 14 were considered adults and had to buy the $5.00 license. They had to turn their $2.00 license back in and then they ran out of $5.00 licenses. They sent us on, about 47 miles up the road and about 20 miles out of our way. They announced they had no out of state d day licenses. They sent us on to Pinedale, another 11 miles up the road. We purchased the remainder of fishing licenses in Pinedale, and then traveled back, where we took the side road toward the Wind River range. We had been able to see the rugged mountains to the right of us as we traveled from Rock Springs. 

We traveled on a paved road for about 20 miles and then it turned to dirt and got worse and worse as we got nearer the mountains. We saw many antelope in the sagebrush as we drove along. The weather had been hot and sunny the entire trip, but thunderclouds built up over the Wind River mountains as we got closer. We crossed the beautiful river leading from the Big Sandy opening of the Wind River. We stopped to look at the river (for fish) and to let off steam. Then we continued up the terrible dirt and rock road another 2 miles where the parking lot was located for hikers in the Big Sandy area. There were about 20 cars parked at the bottom. 

We got our packs together and were about to start up the trail, when Brian Morris discovered his boots missing. We guessed that they have bounced out during the last 2 miles of road. We were in the last parking spot, so we had the boys reserve the spot with packs, etc. while Brian, Chris and I traveled down the road. There were trucks working on the road, so the workmen held us up each passage and probably wondered why we were traveling back and forth so much. We traveled back down where we had stopped earlier, and there were the boots lying right beside the spot where we had stopped. We reasoned that Steve Pettegrew had taken them out in order to check out his pet nightcrawlers, tuck them in, etc, and had forgotten to put them (the boots) back. Of course, Steve wouldn’t admit it. 

We traveled back up to our reserved parking space, and during the trip up, the dark clouds suddenly gathered, and it started to hail, hailstones about an inch in diameter. We felt sorry for the scouts we had left behind, and especially for our packs. When we got back, it had stopped hailing momentarily, and most of the scouts had taken refuge under nearby trees. They had also placed the packs under vehicles close by. When we got packed, the hail began again, and all the scouts huddled in the suburban. The hail lasted for another 10 minutes and then subsided. We decided to try the trail and warily donned our packs and set out – with very threatening skies all around. 


We started hiking about 4:30 PM and the trail was mostly covered with ½ inch of hail, and a little muddy. We had to make a few stops under pine trees for the first mile or two to get out of some rain showers, but for the most part the weather cooperated very well. We hiked up about 6 ½ miles to Big Sandy Lake. Seven scouts were in the lead and were about ½ mile ahead of the other four. Regan Eardley, Mark Huyboom, Brian Morris and I were trailing. We slow hikers caught up with the others at Big Sandy. We rested a bit. A few tried to fish (with no success), and we decided to hike the rest of the way up to Black Joe Lake, another 1 ½ miles. 

The trail up to Big Sandy was beautiful, and most of the way, and most of the way we hiked parallel to a beautiful river coming out of Big Sandy. A few fishermen could be seen, catching some small fish. We hiked around the Big Sandy Lake, fighting mosquitoes all the way. The trail around Big Sandy was semi-muddy, and at first, we went to great pains to hop rocks and keep our feet dry while fording the many small streams. Finally, about ¾ of the way around Big Sandy, the rivers became larger and we gave up all thoughts of keeping our feet dry and just tromped thru the last 5 or 6 streams. There were a few tents pitched at Big Sandy. We talked to a few and then continued on the trail, straight up, to Black Joe. On fording the last stream, Regan tried to cross on a log and fell in, dripping wet all over. He was cold and wet and was about ready to give up right there. 

At this time, some of the scouts had gone on ahead and five of us were about ½ mile behind. I decided that 2 of us, Mark Huyboom and I would try to catch the others, and Jestin Hays and Regen would hike slower – and we would send others back to help Regen with his pack. I got ahead of Mark and the trail began to peter out. It began to be covered with small patches of snow, and as we continued – larger patches of snow. It was beginning to get dusk and we were all spread out. A few prayers and fast hiking, and I finally caught up with the remainder of the group, although the trail was almost non-existent, a few tracks could be seen here and there. 

Brian Crook and Ted Paulsen had gone ahead of the rest of the group, in search of the camping spot, since the advance group became concerned that they had lost the trail. After a few minutes, the two scouts came back and said the camping place was ahead, about 1/2 mile. We decided to hike there quickly, release our packs, and leave some scouts to set up camp while four or five of us returned, with flashlights, to help the remaining three.  And after a word of prayer, we did just that. It was getting dark very quickly, and we hurried back down the trail, over the snow. First we found Mark Huyboom, who wasn’t sure if he was lost or not, since the trail was so sparse. Then a little further we located Jestin and Regan. They had hiked further than we had thought they would – luckily. We helped them with their packs and we quickly returned to the camp spot. The tent had been set up, a fire built, and we thought that was a great sight. 


We had a quick meal, tried to dry our wet clothes, over the roaring fire. We had a group prayer, thanking the Lord for the safe hike, and settled in our tents. Chris and I were in Bob’s four-man tent, Scott and Steve were in Scott’s tent, Regan and Mark were in Regan’s family tent. Brian C, Ted, and Brian Morris were in a 2 man tent, and Steve Pettigrew and Jestin were in a 2 man tent.  The night was very cold, and I never really did get warm. I only got about an hour sleep. 

The next morning we took our time rolling out of bed. The camp was situated about 75 yards from a beautiful stream, about ¼ mile below Black Joe Lake. We had an unorganized breakfast and got into the business of fishing. The day warmed up considerably. Steve Pettegrew caught the first few fish, during our breakfast, in the stream. I hiked up to the lake, but caught nothing.  We caught some fish in the stream and later Chris and I hiked up to the lake again and caught 6 or 7. We cooked some fish that evening along with hash browns. 

I moved our tent to a more level location, since I had slept so poorly the previous night. The previous spot had a slope, up and down and sidewards, and was moist because it was near to a melting snowbank about 30 yards uphill. We had a night of better sleep, much warmer, more level. We had some breakfast and began to pack, Chris and I, for our hike down the mountain. We discovered our fish were gone. We had hidden them in a snowbank close by camp, on a stringer, about 5 or 6 fish. The stringer and all were gone. Some of the other scouts had put their fish in a side stream in a net. They were gone too. We assumed that a beaver, badger, skunk, bear, etc. had made a nice meal. 

Scott and Steve Thacker decided to hike down with us, so we reluctantly let them. We had met the ranger the day before and he had informed us that we were camped too close to the stream and the trail – that there was a new rule in our area that camping was only allowed outside of 200 yards from a stream or a trail, and we were right next to both, between the two.  So the rest of the scouts had to make preparations to move camp, up the hill about midway between the river and another lake. 

The four of us bid adieu to the remaining seven and began hiking down. We were to meet Bob Caldwell on the trail up, and give him further instructions on how to locate the camp. Bob drove our Honda up Wednesday eve and slept in the Suburban Wednesday night.  We had an uneventful hike down, making fairly good time. Whenever we stopped, we would get attacked by swarms of mosquitoes.  We met Bob on the trail, about 2 miles from the bottom. We met by the river where we saw many small fish.  We gave him instructions on how to find the camp and then continued on down, while he continued on up.  

We hiked down to our cars, put some of our gear in the Suburban and the rest in our Honda. We traveled on down the road in the Honda, taking the road to Farson.  Bob said that he ran over 3 rabbits on the way up the previous night, and we counted 4 or 5 fresh carcasses, along with dozens of older ones. We saw a few antelope also.  We drove to Farson, bought $2 worth of gas, and drove on to Rock Springs, another $4 of gas (fill). We had dinner at the Arctic Circle in Rock Springs, $7.60, the four of us. We continued on home. We stopped at a nice rest stop, arriving home at 8:00.


Sunday, March 26, 1978

Easter Old and Not Quite New


This is a picture of Grandpa Rex and his brother Gordon. Lovelock, Nevada, 1919.  Rex would have been 3½, Gordon just turned two, and sister Miriam would be born a few months later. Easter would have been April 20 in 1919. Who knows for sure if this was taken on Easter, but the baskets and eggs are a pretty good indication. As in many of the photos of young Rex and Gordon, they were dressed almost like twins in cute outfits. 

Fast forward 59 years ...
Grandpa Rex had switched Easter companions. Here the year is 1978.  Ironically, this photo was discovered in an album belonging to Grandma Lucille in the years after all the grandparents were gone. Mom/Margie's folks and Dad/Lamar's mom and Grandpa Vic were good friends and got together socially quite often, as this photo would indicate. Fun photo finds in unexpected places ... almost like hunting for Easter eggs!  
 

Tuesday, November 15, 1977

Priesthood Preview ~Scott and Chris

 This will  be backdated to 1977

Over the years, there were many presentations and awards. Often, the programs would be slipped somewhere (baby book, journals, filing cabinet) to preserve them to look back on in future years. The program above was found in Scott's baby book. For an enlarged copy, look in Dropbox in the 1977 year.

The Priesthood Preview, 1977. Chris Westra was noted as one of the "boys to be honored" along with several others from the Cottonwood 11th ward. Scott is listed as one of the "Deacon Quorum Presidencies and Advisors" (again, for the 11th ward). 

Harry Peckham was at the piano  (his wife taught piano lessons to Wendy and Jen). One of the speakers, Dee Hadley, lived across the street from the Westra home. It is hard to read (small print) but Mom is also mentioned with several others "Appreciation is extended to ..." (although the spelling here is Marj Westra) as part of the Stake Primary Board.


The three songs with lyrics listed ... not any I am familiar with from later years in the church (serving in primary, having boys of my own). Not much information online about them either, although two of them were included in LDS songbooks.

I Want to be a Deacon (B-88) in "Sing with Me" 1969 edition.

Don't Envy the Boy (L-80) 1979 edition (as this is AFTER this presentation, the song must have also been available in some earlier publication).

This picture in Dropbox doesn't indicate this was the night of the Priesthood Preview, but it does showcase the two Westra boys pointed out in the program, and they are dressed up in their Sunday best (although November 12 was actually a Saturday).


After the post went live, Mom had these memories ...

Out of all the Stake Priesthood Previews I went to as a mom and several I helped put on as a Counselor in the Stake Primary, two things that have stayed with me:

  • The ones I helped put on:  A Leadership lesson I learned from the Stake Primary President (and previous ones):  The stake Primary President kept a loose-leaf binder with all the details from that year's Priesthood Preview------amounts of food, supplies needed, samples of programs, costs, invitation samples, etc.  Then the binder was passed on to future Presidents to continue to benefit planning for future Priesthood Previews.  I thought that was a great idea.
  • One thing during one of the programs, by one of the stake presidency, and I have remembered ever since is this:  He called up one of the boys in the stake and told him, "I have heard that you are a very good and accomplished young man.  Therefore, I am going to make you King of England.  Then he put a fancy King's robe about the boy and crowned him "King of England."  Then he went on to teach that he had no authority to make that boy King of England----just as other religions have no authority to do things like that.  And told how our priesthood authority comes from God and we must have that authority in order to have prophets, etc.      It was a good way to teach that point.

Wednesday, January 12, 1977

School Certificates in the 70s

The Westra siblings excelled in school, so of course there were certificates and awards sent home throughout the years. Some of them got saved ... and then scanned, and now preserved and posted on the blog and into Dropbox.

1974 ... Chris got an award for reading "at least 12 books" during the summer vacation.  I wish we had a recorded record of the books he read (as we do in Shane's Booklist, Age 11). Mrs. Bullock was his teacher, which would have put him in Third Grade. Mrs. Bullock was remembered for reading aloud to the class, favorites such as "Baby Island" and "Sonny Elephant" were introduced in 3rd grade. 



Wendy's box had a "Vacation Reader's Diploma" for 1974 and 1975.
That would have been 1st and 2nd grade for her.
 

For Scott, 1975 started 6th grade, his final year at elementary school. In his box, there were three certificates saved from that year. "Good Citizen" of the month (no date on the award though, so we don't know which month!) He got an award for serving on the "Safety Patrol" and another for special services in the office. What a helpful guy!





... another reading award for Chris, in 1977 (5th grade)

Historical Certificates from the Seventies ... Scanned and Saved forever!